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Love, Romance and Relationship Advice

"Is the word "love" important?
I don't know but for me, you are more important.
Do you know why?
Because how can I say "I love you" if you're not here."
~ Anonymous ~

Love is the purest of your feelings that comes from the bottom of your heart. It makes you walk on the cloud 9 and it changes your life forever. Since love is so precious, we should always make sure that we can cherish it forever. But as it is said the path of true love never runs smooth.

So here are some simple suggestions and love advice which would help you to make your love life a lot smooth and happy. You can consult these love and relationship advice whenever you feel that something is going wrong with your love life, and we promise to help you out by making you see the positive and healthy side of your relationship. Sometimes minor arguments can lead to a lifetime of heartbreak. But it doesn't have to be that way.

These simple yet effective love advice would help you prevent a heartbreak. So don't just give up, give it one more try with these relationship advice and we are sure you would succeed in the path of love.

Building Bonds with Communication
Communicate with your partner. That's the best thing to do when you feel something is going wrong or something is not happening. The best way to build a strong relationship is to communicate. In a relationship as pure as love, there is no room for misunderstanding or secrets.

But make sure not to hurt her feelings through your words. Words can leave a scar deeper than you can imagine. So talk to your partner, but to build a relationship. Not to show your grudges or accuse the other person. Let your heart do the talking not the ego or the anger.

Become an Active Listener
We all love to speak, but most of the times we forget that even our sweetheart has something to say. We do tend to hear them, but most often we don't listen. So try to be an active listener. Communication and listening go hand in hand. So understand the importance of both. Respect your sweetheart for their views.

When you are listening make sure you listen attentively. Your mind along with your body should be present there. When your sweetheart wants to say something, give him/her your undivided attention. If you cannot politely tell your sweetheart that whatever he/she is saying is very important and that you want to be your 100% when you listen to him/her. So ask for time to freshen up and then listen to what he/she has to say.

Don't judge your partner. We all have lot of flaws and follies. So we should not judge others for what they are. Love is accepting the differences in our loved ones and loving them for what they are. Also don’t jump at every sentence to give advice. Let her finish first and then you start speaking.

Appreciate your partner for what they are
Praising goes a long way in building a strong relationship. Although we tend to least praise the people we love the most. So do not take the good things in your sweetheart for granted, appreciate them. And do it often. And the best thing you can do is to praise them in front of your family and friends for being so considerate, caring, loving and helpful. After all even the smallest gesture is an expression of love that should be reciprocated whenever possible.

Don't be afraid to say "Sorry"
Well, this is something that we all know but most of the time we forget to say sorry. Saying sorry to anybody is never easy. Most of the times our pride comes in our way. But these three simple words are very effective, easily when it can save from building lot of resentment.

So next time you have an argument and you feel that you were wrong, use these 3 simple words, say "I am sorry" and trust us, they are as strong as the 3 magicla words, "I love you". Trust us it works like magic. You can say sorry in different ways, send her a "I am sorry" ecard, write it on a sticky and paste it on the wall, gift her a bouquet with a "I am sorry" note on it and you can be sure to see your partner with a big smile on his/her face. Let love be the only feeling that you two share, not resentment and misunderstanding.

So with these relationship advice with hope you two can go a long way towards fulfilling your dreams of being together in love forever.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

This is the first time I’ve commented on your blog. This great post attracted me, the list seems very complete to me. I like the point of “Take full ownership of your actions”. For me this is the base of all points. Our actions will make us to better or worse at living.

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